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        Some helpful information for your many planning phases
of your Bar/Bat Mitzvah

Research ResourcesMitzvah Project Resources Other Helpful Judaic Sites


What is a Bar or Bat Mitzvah?

When a boy or girl reaches the age of 13 (girls are 12), he/she is considered a Bar/Bat Mitzvah, and is obligated to observe mitzvot (Torah commandments) as an adult Jew.  Traditionally, this obligation begins for girls at 12 (although some congregations consider 13 the age for girls to celebrate their Bat Mitzvah). 

What is my Hebrew birthday?  How do I set the date for my Bar/Bat Mitzvah celebration?

The Hebrew date determines the right time to celebrate your Bar/Bat Mitzvah. 

Go to http://bible.ort.org/books/cald5.asp to find out your Hebrew birthday.  Make a note of 
your Torah Portion as it appears on the screen for future reference. 

How does the Hebrew calendar work? 

The Hebrew calendar is divided into 12 lunar months.  Each one begins on Rosh Hodesh - the day when the new moon appears.  It is shorter than the Gregorian calendar, which follows the solar year, by 11 days.  Every so often (7 times in a 19 year cycle) an extra month is added to the Hebrew year so that the Jewish holidays fall in their appropriate season. 

If, by chance, I do not know the spelling of my Hebrew Name, where do I go?

This site is wonderful - it will give you several options for male and female names. 

http://www.my-hebrew-name.com/

Where can I get information for my Bar/Bat Mitzvah?

Some resources that I know of are as follows:

Judaism 101 - Encyclopedia of Judaism, covering Jewish beliefs, people, places, things, language, scripture,
holidays, practices and customs. 

ABC's of Bar/Bat Mitzvah - A 7-point guide to the Jewish coming-of-age ceremony.

My Bar/Bat Mitzvah Resource Center

The Brachot - Online course on blessings. 

Jewish Law - Torah.org - Explanations on beginners, intermediate and advanced level. 

Torah.org - Rabbi Boruch Clinton Judaism Primer & Lessons on classic Jewish texts on 3 levels. 

Jewish Texts - Navigating the Bible ORT.  Text of Five Books of Moses and Haftarot, English and Hebrew. 

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Metsudah Chumash - Chumash with Rashi's Commentary - English

Jewish Festivals - Resource material on the Jewish Calendar

Jewish Holidays - Material on Jewish Calendar - Orthodox Union

A Different Night - Essays on Passover, the Haggadah and the Seder

Seder Fun

The Jampacked Bible - Activities for Youth

Jvibe - Online Magazine for Jewish Teens

Torah.org

Torah.org - Index of Divrei Torah

Aleph-bet on the Net - Online Hebrew tutorial

Aish HaTorah - Speak Hebrew with Moshe and Leah

Jewish Agency for Israel - Weekly insights on the Parsha with commentaries by Nehama Leibovitz

ORT - Navigating the Bible - "Living Torah" by Rabbi Aryeh Kaplan with commentaries

Discussion of Parsha - by Yaakov Fogelman, TOP

Jewish Genealogy

Sephardic Genealogical Resources

Ten Lost Tribes - PBS Nova

Virtual Jerusalem

Jewishnet

Jewish Path - Cyberspace Super Highway To Jewish Learning with hundreds of discussions blending the
Weekly Parsha, Mysticism, Messianic Refute, Medos {self improvement}.  

Jewish Virtual Library

Jewish.com

The Parsha Page - Rashi sorted by verse.

Torah Lab - Rabbi Yaacov Haber's Blog

Torah Search.com - Online Torah Search Engine

Jerusalempedia.com - JerusalemPedia is your online link to Jerusalem and the Holy Land. In the center of Israel,
Jerusalem Israel is The Center of the Universe… Holy to three world religions.






Jewish National Fund - Explores and implements new methods for irrigating and developing the Negev Desert. 

Camp Kesem National - Creates summer camps for children whose parents have cancer.

MAZON - Allocates donations to prevent and alleviate hunger nationwide. 

Chai Lifeline - Helping Sick Jewish children with cancer and other genetic diseases

Remember Us:  Holocaust B'nai Mitzvah Project - Helps B'nai Mitzvot children remember and honor children lost
in the Holocaust. 

SaveNature.org - Dedicated to creating global partnership to cultivate ecosystem protection worldwide. 

Shoes That Fit - Provides needy children with new shoes and clothing. 

Thanksgiving Coffee Company - Promotes peace, prosperity and environmental sustainability in Uganda. 

The Bookman - Collects and redistributes used books to hospitals, homeless shelters and other locations.

Myriam's Dream - Provides funds to elderly and needy individuals in Israel and Eastern Europe. 

PAWS - Dedicated to rescue and placement of homeless and abused pets. 

Jewish Woman International - Champions the safety and welfare of women and girls. 

Peace Players International - Uses basketball in conflict and post conflict areas to promote peace and unity.

Religious Action Center of Reform - Organizes  youth seminars to defend freedoms & cnfront intolerance
worldwide. 

Gift of Life Bone Marrow Foundation - Facilitates bone marrow and stem cell transplants. 

Project Medishare - Dedicated to sharing human resources to provide quality healthcare throughout Haiti.

Partners in Health - Partners In Health (PIH) has been working on the ground in Haiti for over 20 years.

Second Wind Dreams - Helps to make nursing home residents dreams come true. 

Maot Chitim of Greater Chicago - Provides food to needy Jewish individuals in the Chicago area.

SHALVA - Provide individual and group counseling to people suffering from domestic abuse. 

B'nai Tzedek - Helps B'nai Mitzvot children to establish endowment funds in their name. 

Action for Post-Soviet Jewry - Assisting Jewish communities in the former Soviet Union. 

National Tay-Sachs & Allied Diseases Assn - Dedicated to the treatment and prevention of Tay-Sachs disease.

Reader to Reader, Inc. - Provides books to needy school libraries across the U.S.

Am Echad - Provides financial and moral support to destitute elderly in former Soviet Union.

Jewish Youth Philanthropy Institute - Helps teens distribute funds and grants to local and overseas charitable
agencies. 

Operation Embrace - Provides assistance to survivors of terror in Israel.

Save A Child's Heart Foundation - Provides urgent life-saving heart surgery for children in developing countries. 

Spark:  Jewish Funds for Justice - Develops resources to enhance and expand high quality Jewish community
service. 

The Cystic Fibrosis Foundation - Assures the development of the means to cure and control cystic fibrosis. 

Minneapolis Jewish Federation - An affiliate of UJC, strives to care for the welfare of Jews worldwide. 

KAVOD - Organizes the pooling of tzedekah resources for a greater impact. 

Creativity for Peace - Joins Palestinian and Israeli female teens together for Peace Camp every summer. 

Columbus Jewish Foundation - Dedicated to supporting the continuity of Jewish life in Columbus and elsewhere. 

Israel Guide Dog Center for the Blind - Provides blind individuals with guide dogs.

Jewish Publication Society - Creates and distributes Jewish culture and learning materials worldwide.

Temple Israel - Provides volunteer and donation opportunities for teens in the mid-south. 

Students Against Terrorism - Raises funds for victims of terrorism in Israel.

CHAI (Concern for Helping Animals in Israel) - Helps assure proper care and treatment of animals in Israel.

The Jade Bar-Shalom Books for Israel Project - Provides books to English speaking students and teachers in
Israel.

St. Joseph Baby Corner - Provides for immediate needs of babies and young children living in poverty. 

Aleh - Provides medical care and rehabilitation to severely disabled children in NY.

Shaare Zedek Medical Center - A 500 bed hospital located in Jerusalem, relies only on support through donation.

American Friends of Meir Panim - Maintains relief centers in Israel that provide welfare solutions to the needy.

American Friends of Yad Eliezer - To combat poverty in Israel, they provide short term relief and explore causes of
indigence.

American Jewish Joint Distribution Committee - Sponsoring programs of relief, rescue and renewal in Jewish
communities worldwide. 

American Zionist Movement - Dedicated to strengthening the connection of American Jewish with Israel.  

AMIT - Educates and cares for Israel's youth, including the most vulnerable.

Do Something - Supports, inspires and celebrates young people dedicated to changing their world.

Dorot - Dedicated to enhancing the lives of the elderly in the United States

Global Goods Partners - Women-led initiaties dedicated to alleviating poverty and promoting social justice.

JCC in Manhattan - Dedicated to building an inclusive Jewish community that celebrates diversity. 

Jewish Home and Hospital Lifecare - Provides inpatient, senior housing and homecare services in New York and
beyond. 

Keren Or - Supports the Keren-Or Center for multi-handicapped blind children in Israel.

Metropolitan Council of Jewish Poverty - Provides over 100,000 needy New Yorkers crisis intervention, home and
family care. 

One Heart - Dedicated to helping victims of terror throughout the world. 

ORT America - Helps B'nai Mitzvah raise funds for ORT's trade and vocational schools worldwide. 

Jewish Foundation for the Righteous - Honors adn supports non-Jews who risked their lives to save Jews during
the Holocaust. 

Shalva - Provides assistance to mentally challenged children in Israel.

UJA - Federation of New York - Cares for those in need and in harms way throughout New York, Israel and
worldwide.

Bold Brave Courageous - Provides assistance to wounded veteran soldiers fromIraq and Afghanistan.

City Green, Inc. - Establishes urban community gardens in New Jersey's inner cities. 

Jewish Family Service of Middlesex County - Offers individuals and families counseling services as well as
personal assistance. 

Music for All Seasons - Arranges for live professional musical performances in special needs locations. 

Ocean's Harbor House - Provides a safe haven for homeless, abused or runaway youth ages 10-21.

One Family Fund - Provides direct financial and legal support to victims of terrorism in Israel.

Palisades Emergency Residence Corporation - Provides education, food, shelter and employment to individuals
living in poverty.

Project EZRAH - Provides counseling, job search and financial assistance to unemployed individuals.







Avodat Yad - Beautiful Original Judaic needlework charts by 2 Wonderful Women who are my friends too.

1-800-Dreidel is a catalog and web site of fun and unusual judaic items.



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